Raise Children by Giving them Real Love! (8)

Nothing affect the feeling better than love. Whatever it is, it has strong effect on building good rapport with sons of Adam. It is undeniable fact that good children are raised by being dosed into the right amounts of love .The kind of love that helps them develop a positive self-concept, and gives them the sense of their worth.
Love is important for many reasons. It binds us to each other. It makes us part of the human family .Love of course is the first gift that the father gives to his kids. So give your children your attention, your support, your time. Love then, is what keeps families hold. Great ties among families can only be built via love. So love doesn’t only mean a sweet kiss on the cheek, or a great hug of embrace. although these are the short ever known ways to love.
Thus what is expressed on the face is usually finds its way to the heart, a parent almost always meets his kids with a broad smile drawn on the face , the moment he or she steps in, usually they embrace their children heartily, this generally happens only natural since that parental love is a gift from God . It is not a mere pretence.
Love, then breeds love. If you really show genuine love to your kids, what do you wait for? Sure you are going to get super- love; love multiplied many times by love. But do all parents show love to their children or do some of them reflect hatred instead? Some parents unfortunately frown all through in front of their kids on some trivial matters. They usually justify this as a controlling action. They have to amend their kids’ behavior right from the very beginning, so that they can programme themselves to a controlled kind of life.
Of human activities that make love, is that you have to praise and appreciate more than you criticize and complain .People who don’t feel loved, are those who don’t have their own needs met . So give your children your attention, your support, your time. Help them develop a sense of themselves as good and competent and independent persons, who can stand on their own feet, and who don’t need the groups’ approval at any price. Help them feel loved. One here should ask a question: Could money ever buy love? To put it another way; if a parent usually frowns and shows contempt, and always complain, but they legendary spend on their family; does that be a reason for love on part of the children? I don’t think so; money can’t buy love. Love is an inborn drive; it is innate in sons of Adam. Just it needs the right environment to grow well, and hence flourished into a red rose which symbolizes LOVE! This is in my opinion.

Dr. Kirya Ahmed

Dr. Kirya Ahmed

Email: kiryafa7@gmail.com
Dr. Kirya Ahmed

Latest posts by Dr. Kirya Ahmed (see all)

Dr. Kirya Ahmed

Dr. Kirya Ahmed

Email: kiryafa7@gmail.com

You May Also Like

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *