The Role of Mother in Bringing-up

It is lovely when you consider the Islam ranking of mother in taking care of the household and looking after her kids. It is mentioned in one of the prophet sayings; three consecutive times as to be deserving the closest befriending. Mother, of course, deserves a lofty place in ranking. Kids are usually found clinging to their mothers, since they see in her the right container that used to contain them while swimming internally in their voyage in the womb. A child’s native language is referred to as mother- tongue; simply because he picks it up subconiously from his mother, being closely linked to her during his nursing period and after.
Mothers usually carry this burden during this entire long journey without feeling sorry, on the contrary, she almost always keeps expecting the day.A whole nine months, and ten extra. Usually she checks the countdown of her calendar. Waiting eagerly to kiss the fruit she bears the whole journey long.
Some women, see pregnancy a time of serenity, they pass it calmly, whereas others see it as a time of tiredness, physical discomfort and emotional swings, the vast majourity find it somewhere in between. It’s often said that extreme stress or worry, labour, and breastfeeding may exacerbate problems with pregnancy, and may even play a role in morning sickness and postnatal depression.
It is lovely that you might ask: What has all this to do with mothers roles in bringing –up. Good! Do you imagine even the effect of a smoked cigarette on the fetus ? Let me tell you something! Believe it or not, a cigarette smoked by a pregnant could affect negatively around %25 on the fetus. Let alone cannabis, drugs, liquor, wine, and narcotics. All these and others affect the baby while it is attached to its source via the umbilical cord
Child bringing up is then starts earlier than its real birth, to exaggerate the matter; it starts at the honeymoon or a bit earlier when she was a fiancée. This is logical, because the mother’s behaviour and habits may to some extent affect inheritably. A mother who is alcohol addicted my give birth to nervous juveniles, physically deformed, or mentally retarded sons. So, one has to care a lot when he chooses. Beauty isn’t all in all. Appearance does not always tell .Thus, after every great man there is a woman. A woman who is, in fact, full of wisdom, regulative, calm, educated enough, and has a lot of common sense. Remaining calm on part of the mother is better for her and her baby than feeling stressed.
There are sound reasons to approach motherhood relaxed and rested. For start, the mother who nurtures herself will be better able to nurture her baby. The months after the baby’s arrival demand almost complete devotion from the mother, possibly involving disrupted sleep and round-the-clock duties .Being fit; calm and rested helps you with the marathon.
Pregnancy can be a time of consolidation and preparation, a time to concentrate on relaxation; it is also a time to establish a general calming routine that will serve the mother, not only today, but in all the journey of the months and years following the birth of her child.
A pregnant usually experiences a list of fears. Fear of pain, fear of hospitals and hospitalizing, fear of complications, fear of the fetus health, and fear of the unknown. These fears and the others queuing, ones suggest a founding of an institution that cares and caters for the pregnant. An institute that deals with their psychological sufferings, mothers should be enlightened of the road they have to trodden, their tension should be released or cooled down, and they should be trained in phobia –free matters. Sure, this will help a lot in bringing –up the new born. This is in my opinion.

Dr. Kirya Ahmed

Email: kiryafa7@gmail.com
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